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How to live a life with no regrets.

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Regret is a feeling we deal with everyday. It’s the “shoulda, coulda, woulda” conversations we have, mostly with ourselves, and sometimes with others:

I shoulda called that person back…Things would be different.

I coulda reacted differently when my kid acted that way.

I woulda have chosen a different path if I had known things would turn out like this.

Sound familiar? This is a very dangerous conversation because it can quickly spiral out of control, and hold us back from realizing our full potential or achieve the levels of success we desire.

3 steps

Here are three practices we can do everyday to live a life without regret.

Practice Gratitude.
It’s become another buzzword in many circles. One of the negative side effects of words like this being hijacked by any community is the potential for the word to lose a bit of its impact or meaning. For those of us with kids, here’s an example we can relate to. We all have had conversations like this:

Child: I don’t like this piece of pizza is has cheese on it.

Parent: You know, there are starving people in the world so you better be grateful for that slice of pizza. 

While it is true that there are starving people in the world, such a conversation misses the mark and doesn’t bring about an opportunity to more fully engage in what it really means to experience gratitude.

In his scientific research on happiness, psychologist and best-selling author, Shawn Anchor, discovered that, among other things, intentionally practicing gratitude can rewire your brain and become a lifelong optimist. In fact, his research was so revolutionary that Oprah partnered up with him to create a 21 day a happiness ecourse. 

So over the next 21 days, practices writing down three different things each day for which you are grateful. And get your loved ones involved, too.

Practice Giving.

There is so much pressure in today’s culture to “go and get it…whatever it takes.” It’s amazing how many people pursue this path, leave a trail of broken relationships behind them and then wonder why they’ve haven’t realized the success they desire.

One of my favorite personal development “gurus” was the great Zig Ziglar. He was one of the world’s most sought after speakers on the topic of achievement and reached more that 250 million people with his 33 books. One of Zig’s most famous quotes is:

Your can have everything you want in life, if you will just help enough other people get what they want.

This life changing message is carried on today by the Ziglar organization, as well as other thought leaders like Bob Burg, author of the international best-seller The Go Giver: A little story about a powerful business idea” where Burg teaches readers about the Five Laws of Stratospheric Success.

Sit down and think about the path you are on and how you can help others bridge the gap from their current reality to their desired reality. You may just discover this is the optimal way to achieve your own dreams.

Practice Going.
In the past, this has been the hardest of the three steps for me. More recently, I have come to terms with the fact that I only have one shot at this life and I can’t wait around for the perfect time or opportunity to take action on the hopes and dreams I have for the future.

It requires us to pause and ask: what is the next best step to take toward achieving the goals I have in every area of life? One of the most helpful tools I’ve discovered help  accomplish this is Michael Hyatt’s LifeScore Assessement.

After completing this exercise, the only thing standing between you and your dreams is the courage to act!

 

What is the key things to remember? You can have everything you want if you live the practice of gratitude for the next 21 days (and beyond), focus on helping others get what they want and focus on moving forward despite the obstacles and curve balls of life.

What are other strategies you use to help live a life without regret? I’d love for you to comment below or on our Facebook page.

4 Ways To Blow Past Your Limiting Beliefs

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There is an iconic scene in The Matrix where Morpheus and Neo test Neo’s newly downloaded Kung Fu Skills. But from Morpheus’ point of view, the true purpose of the exercise was to call into question everything Neo believed to be true about his capabilities.

 

About half way through the scene, Neo is flat on his stomach and Morpheus asks:

How did I beat you?

Neo, sweaty and out of breath, looks up and answers:

You’re too fast.

 

Many of us go through life life Neo. We’ve been told our potential is capped. We’ve been told that a certain set of circumstances require us to remain stuck in place. So we buy into believing our competition, our living situation, our finances, our business, our health our attitude are all “too fast” for us. And what we really want to do, who we really want to become, and the impact we know we can have in the world drift off in our dreams.

 

Sound familiar? It does to me. I struggle daily with this very battle. I am not a brain expert, but I know it is doing all it can to keep us alive and ensure we don’t take on more than we can handle. One of the primary reasons I launched The Impact Entrepreneur Show and Blog is to break free of the false chains holding me back from realizing my own potential. I want the same for you! I want to share this journey with others because I want all of us to rise above the fog and sore together to new heights.

 

You see, regardless of your faith background, I believe we were all created by God for greatness. We were created to do more than we can possibly ask for or imagine. The beautiful thing is we already possess the ability to do so. We just need to tap into it and then, as Morpheus said to Neo:

Don’t think you are; know you are.

 

Here are 4 ways to blow past your limiting beliefs

Think differently
In a recent conversation I had with Tom Bilyeu, Found and CEO of Quest Nutrition, he shared the importance of figuring things out so that he could control his own destiny. If he had an idea for something or was passionate about a project but did not possess the skill, the good news he discovered was that he could invest in learning the skill. Many of us get stuck right there, but making different decisions equal different outcomes. I’d say it’s worked for Tom and Quest. After all, they have grown 57,000% and are now a billion dollar company.

Practice affirmations
I used to believe that reciting positive statements about myself or the future I am working to create was a bunch of psychobabble, and it is, but it just happens to be true psychobabble. There are two main benefits:

  1. It is impossible to be simultaneously negative and positive.
  2. You become what you think about.

If you intentionally practice making affirmations about yourself in the present tense, then you will begin to move toward that which you think about. Proof – When police are on the look out for a stolen, black Honda suddenly all they say are black Honda. It’s not that the “universe” put it there; it is, however, how their thoughts were organized.

A phenomenal book on the matter is called Personal Coaching for Results by the late Lou Tice.

Write it down
The most important step you can take is to write down your dream or vision. It doesn’t have to be some long narrative or business plan. Heck, you can even bullet point it. Go big! Don’t hold back. What does it look like, feel like, smell like when you arrive at your goal? What are the people around you saying? What is the impact you’ve had in the world. It is a tremendously powerful exercise and it will breathe life into your dreams.

Share it with others
There is a lot at stake if you DO NOT execute your vision, so you are obligated to share it in a big way. And, when you share it with others, there is an amazing thing that happens – whether you like it or not – accountability. People now know what it is you want to accomplish and they naturally are going to inquire about its progress. They will ask you things like, “have you do xyz?” And you will only be able to answer one of two ways – yes or no.

 

There are just a few tools I try to use to push past the barriers that hold me back. I’m not perfect and sometimes I let those barriers hold me back for too long. But the difference is that I get back up and I remember I am created for greatness.

 

What are tips or tricks you use to break past your limiting beliefs?

Discover the #2 Secret to Success

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On May 25, 1961, President John F. Kennedy made a bold announcement:

 

“We choose to go to the moon. We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard. Because that goal will serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills; because that challenge is one that we are willing to accept, one we are unwilling to postpone, and one which we intend to win, and the others, too.” President John F. Kennedy

 

Fast forward eight years later, Buzz Aldrin was one of the first two humans to land on the moon. Meanwhile, as Buzz was taking his first moon walk, back on earth my mom was hanging out at the beach, staring up at the moon and thinking to herself:

“Wow, there literally is a man on the moon looking back down at me, right now.”

So, what the heck does this have to do with the #2 secret to success? And why am I skipping the #1 secret to success? Well, I didn’t exactly skip it. Amy Cosper, the Editor-in-Chief of Entrepreneur Magazine, actually talks about the #1 most important thing in episode 3 of The Impact Entrepreneur Show, which I recommend you check out. But here’s a hint: it has to do with seeing clearly.

 

The #2 Secret to Success is (drum roll) the COURAGE TO ACT! We dream. We imagine. We may even possess the ability to FEEL success. But far too often, we fail to take the action necessary to succeed.

 

This is an epidemic in our society today and, in my opinion, we need you to take action. We need you to step up and take action on inventing the next best thing since sliced bread. We need you to start that podcast. We need YOU!

So here’s the prescription. The quote I’m about to share has the potential to be true game changer for you and anyone you share it with. It is an outline to why the courage to act is the #2 secret to success:

“Sow an act and reap a habit. Sow a habit and reap your character. Sow your character and reap your destiny.” Charles Reade

Be a dreamer, but be a dreamer and a doer. Don’t allow yourself to be caught up in all the “what if scenarios.”

Simply ask yourself these two questions – everyday:

  1. What is at stake if I do not take action I what I know I possess the potential to achieve?
  2. What is the next best step toward achieving my goal?

In addition, surround yourself with other people who are on an adventure of creating and innovating and skipping the beach so they might discover a way to land on the moon.

What tools do you use to make sure you have the courage to act? Comment below or on our Facebook page. 

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